Courtney - have I got a deal for you! Kick Matt to the curb and forget him! I think you are a smart and lovely young woman who deserves and can have it all. Having said that, I would like you and your girl friends to come visit me in Arizona. Why? I am a middle-aged woman who is in need of a daughter-in-law to spoil. I am a fashion addict, love Marfa, Texas and have a son who is 28 that folks frequently mistake for Jake Gylenhall. You girls need to come on out to Arizona for a visit. You, my dear, belong in my family.