Quad Webb-Lunceford

Quad isn't sorry she brought some fun to Jackie's event -- and thinks Kari should be sorry for the way she's treating Mariah.

on Apr 7, 20130

I was truly honored to participate in the "It's The Journey" breast cancer walk.

Yet, Jackie found something to criticize, so please forgive Mariah and I for bringing some fierce, fabulous style to Jackie's Jewels -- as we've forgiven you for not saying a simple thanks for our time, physical efforts, and financial donations. Cancer is a serious disease that has impacted us all in one way or another. For me it was via my aunt and college friend who both survived the terrible disease.

Unfortunately, an estimated 1.4 million new breast cancer cases were diagnosed in 2008. Breast cancer is also the leading cause of cancer death in women worldwide, with an estimated 458,400 deaths a year. It is highly imperative that we as women get our yearly mammogram and conduct personal checks frequently. I applaud Jackie for her courageous spirit and sharing her story with millions. The message here is to never give up and continue to fight the good fight.

50 comments
fabulashchicago
fabulashchicago

You are fabulous Quad and I have to say, although I know you desperately wanted to help break up the fight and assist your girl, I am so glad you were held back and your image held up and not tarnished.

solidasarock
solidasarock

QUAD...no one else needs to reiterate the fact that you are AWESOME...and WE LOVE YOU. Keep being you - your wit and humor coupled with a sincere heart - because great things are in store. Salty people...like some of your other castmates don;t realize how miserable they come across, and know that HATERS will be there because there are people with miserable kindred spirits out there

Papirazzi
Papirazzi

I apologize I had you all wrong. I wasn't feeling you the first couple episodes.  However,  I just saw you with your kids and I am happy to say that you are a great Moms.  Those are some very nice and beautifully behaved little ones.  It put a smile on my face so thanks for that.

realityfan86
realityfan86

I love you Quad. Your my favorite so far. I hope you and Mariah remain friends because you two are the truest. You need to control yourself but your temper will keep the show interesting. I don't understand how the ladies are looking down on you. I hope your marriage becomes great and your husband gives you everything you mentally and emotionally want. Keep being you but take it from Mariah and learn how to play the game. Be real but learn how to put on a face in front of these ladies.

approaching48
approaching48

Quad I think you are as real as they come let them know who you are and stand your ground! Jackie is undercover and she needs to get it right!

shellywalker
shellywalker

Love you Quad.  Keep the haters in their place.

Negrita24
Negrita24

Quad I love your character. I adore Mariah. Toya...all I will say is I will pray for you. It is really funny how she talks about the past ans where Mariah comes from and how she wants to put on AIRS Yet you are the one wanting to move into a house that says money. Which one is it. Your beginning does not define who you are. Your decisions do. Also just because you have a nice car, house or clothes for that matter does not make you a nice person. Your character and reputation make you that. IT is not cool when you go around discussing peoples personal business and that is for all ladies. I just pray that you all gain some wisdom from Dr. Jacke and Dr. Simon they seem like they have it together. Regardless though. I LOVE ME SOME QUAD AND MARIAH...Simone you are boo too!!! Wishing you all blessings!!!!

shellywalker
shellywalker

Quad. I love you and continue to keep that hag of a witch (Kari) in her place.

Faithful744
Faithful744

Quad, you and Mariah are my favorites so far.  you both seem to be portraying your true selves.  Sometimes people forget where they've come from and how they came to be who they are in the present.  it doesn't look like you have gone there yet.  Stay real because at the end of the day no matter how much mabeline or Mac you smear on, the real you will come shining through.  Toya and Kari think they've arrived because their husbands are Doctors.  Toya won't even let her husband save a nickel before she spends it.  That is sad and when she's home alone in that house that says money and her husband is forced to work 24/7 to pay for it and falls in love with a "nurse Betty" because he sees her more than his wife. she'll feel what wannbe is really about.  Kari will be traded in for a new, improved version soon as well and that will be sad too.  But Karma, you know how she is..... It's sad that Toya and Mariah get into a smack down at the party in the next episode.  Especially since Mariah felt like Kari didn't want "us" in her home to begin with.  I don't understand why they had to share a party in the first place. Looking forward to the next episode and more Quadisms....

charlie@company
charlie@company

Ms Quad.......even though you are a "Hot Mess" in social settings......I respect the fact that you have a career!!! I do think that you were judged unfairly by crazy Kari & dumb Toya!!! You are hilarious to watch, as you keep it real!!! And remember it's not how you start, but how you finish!!!

peace_is_mine
peace_is_mine

Quad I am a fan!   I don't blame you for sounding off on those birds!   They have had it in for you since you got there.  They are truly delusional if they think they can just keep talking about you and you not respond.  I really dislike Toya and Kari they are two peas in one F'd up pod so shake the shady boot off honey and keep it moving.

melinda.lyons.986
melinda.lyons.986

Loved the outfits you and Mariah wore to the walk! Jackie needs to relax a little bit.

marlon99
marlon99

Quad we love U. But question who won the fight btwn Toya and Mariah... 

Now I know if it was u Toya would have been in that pool. Where she belongs...

michellewhit76
michellewhit76

love Quad !!! she is my favorite so far!!! Ain,t  no fun when the rabbit got the gun!!! BAHHH and to all you haters you can catch fire!! LOL

RIC2HOU-
RIC2HOU-

QUAD ITS NOT THAT SERIOUS SOME THINGS SHOULD JUST BE LEFT UNSPOKEN! AT THE REQUEST OF MY MOTHER I TUNED IN AND WATCH A COUPLE OF EPISODES . ALL I HAVE TOSAY IT'S WOW! ALL THESE BEAUTIFUL EDUCATED BLACK WOMAN AROUND HERE AND SOME HOW YOU AND THAT BIRD MARIAH MANAGE TO MARRY DOCTORS. YOU HAVE NO CLASS AND YOU ACT LIKE A DRAG QUEEN WITH ALL THAT "HONEY" AND "YES" . IN THE WORDS OF TAMAR "GIRL GET YOUR LIFE"!

COCOFAB
COCOFAB

Quad, your annoying and I think your trying to be like Nene Leakes!!!!! From watching the shows you are the most bujetto housewife that barely got married to fit in the circle of the doctors wives!!! NENE IS THE BOMB AND YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO BE A CLASSY LADY NOT A CLASSLESS BROAD!!! I LOVE DR JACKIE AND SHE IS A HUGE INSPIRATION AND HERO

Juror69
Juror69

Jackie's Jewels did not need any "inspiration from you or Mariah. You looked absolutely foolish. Who the hell asks for a "thank you" after supposedly supporting a worthy cause. Do you really need your ego stroked that much? You are a miserable person. Maybe if you just be yourself, you would be a lot happier. 

subscribe01
subscribe01

Love you Quad stay away from the fights...You are simply the Best .

Mendii_O
Mendii_O

Miss Quad ...you and Mariah joke around so much its a little to much for some people I think your young and have a lot you been through but take time in snap back they dont take you seriously but keep doing you...people not always coming for you .........I love the slang .....and the song Miss Quad Miss Quad she got it she got.... im gonna stay tuned to see how far you come.....I didn't use to watch the until I saw you and kandi on with andy I was like wow is this with all thus slang really wow I watched all old show to see you miss Quad. And Mariah and the doctor I dont know her name dr simmon I like you ...do you ladys

thiswhitegirllovesmesomequad
thiswhitegirllovesmesomequad

I love Dr. Jackie and the inspiration she brings...Quad girl I think you Mariah was great for bringing a lil inspiration to such a sad cause...The cause itself is not sad, but any cancer is obviously a sad time for our fighters...Keep it up Quad...Love from Tx

sha_1
sha_1

I am a fan of Dr. Jackie... she is an inspiring woman...not just black woman...woman. But I feel that she discredited your efforts FIRST. Once again... someone says something about you...and you are the one that is wrong for having a response, or feeling a certain way about what they say. I just don't get it. As the child of a parent who is right now awaiting her Mastectomy in a couple of weeks ...there was nothing offensive about you an Mariah wearing those wigs. Cancer is not a death sentence...and there is nothing wrong with having fun & loving life...and trying to bring life & fun into everything that you do. Dr. Jackie is awesome...but I agree with Dr. Simone that she should lighten up a bit. I think that it is wonderful that you ladies gave your time, & monetary donations to support breast cancer AND Dr. Jackie...appreciation and respect is not to much to ask... I don't care how you came dressed . My opinion...

sha_1
sha_1

I disagree with the other posts Qaud. I have not seen you do anything that demonstrates that your not a lady. Do you "pounce" when you feel backed into a corner??? Yes, but so do MOST... people kill me acting like they would have responded differently to someone standing in front of them attacking their character, and their marriage. Those women looked down, & talked down to you from jump...and now everybody wants to act like you are the one trippin & out of line??? I don't get it...what do people expect...we are only human. Just because the mean & hateful things they do, & say are done with a fake smile on their botox faces the whole time doesn't make their behavior any less classless, hurtful, or unlady like. 

2wisehands
2wisehands

Quad, you got some growing to DO, honey! You came into that group with a chip on your shoulder that precedes you! God gave you two ears and one mouth for a reason! You want to stay married to that  Dr you snagged?  SHADDUP. By the way, I like you. You're 'real'. Just do yourself a favor and be a lady. Don't throw shade or wear those boots, babe, because woman who know their own worth don't get offended!! Oh, and read the Fifth Agreement, honey and Mariah is not the Queen B she's just another insecure wanna be. Be your own woman.

 

ejd7
ejd7

I'm just glad to see that it doesn't look like you in the fight next week! I think you have some really likeable qualities, so maybe the negative spotlight can be on someone else for awhile.

jh102289
jh102289

I dont know how you call yourself a lady, Every time you open your mouth you insult someone. it tells alot that two weeks before your wedding it was called of by email or text and your poor husband was arrested!!! I hope all the of the people that do business with you are watching this show, so they can see the real you!!!! Bravo always does an amazing job in showing us the truth.... NOT A FAN OF YOU

observer12
observer12

You always find a way to discredit everything.  Jackie made a comment about the wigs and maybe it wasn't the best time to wear a wig.  Do you think?  You are alway looking for a fight and a reason to gripeven when there is no reason to.

AtticusFinch
AtticusFinch

If watching this show means that I have to look at you, let alone hear your low class comments, then forget it. I won't watch again, ever.

 

 

Sinciar
Sinciar

Well I think Toya initiated the “Looking Down” when she approached Quad, whom she doesn’t really know (and Quad said so herself), and said something to the effect that she thought it was ridiculous that her husband cancelled the wedding….blah blah blah….1st and foremost Quad had already stated that they were 3 months deep into the marriage, so for me…it was already UNECESSARY to even bring back up the incident. 2nd of all what relationship you know doesn’t have FIGHTS, ARGUMENTS, DISAGREEMENTS…etc. and MOST of all what business is it of Toya and whoever else to know/gossip about the cancellation of the wedding. Toya says “I think we need to clear the air” Clear the air about what? “Who would marry a man that would that to them” TOYA NEEDS TO BUTT OUT OF EVERYBODYS BUSINESS. Rewatch episode 1. I read Kari & Toya quite well…I went to school with girls like those women, and I use the term “Women” very lightly.

sha_1
sha_1

 @RIC2HOU-  It is interesting to me that you would say these things about Quad "YOU HAVE NO CLASS AND YOU ACT LIKE A DRAG QUEEN WITH ALL THAT "HONEY" AND "YES" . But then turn around a quote Tamar??? No disrespect... I love Tamar, but seems awfully backwards to me because on paper, as far as reality shows go... they are the same chick to me...minus the pipes on that Tamar.  Tamar is over the top drag queenish, loud, obnoxious at times, speaks in the 3rd, has those hilarious 1 liners, & catch phrases.... AND snagged her a man with some money. Hmmm.... interesting.    

2wisehands
2wisehands

 @sha_1 I like Quad, too. The problem is that when you are the 'new kid' in town ( or in a group ) it's more advantageous to STFU and listen twice as much as  you talk. Quad decided to 'have some fun' at that party and thanks to Mariah getting Quad all worked up over some imagined slight from Kari - Quad decided to go for Kari's jugular. Quad grilled Kari about her divorce because she was retaliating for what she and Mariah perceived to be Kari's bad behavior at Mariah's b-day party!! Come on!! Just because you were born without a silverspoon does NOT give you license to act like a BOOR. Kari is doing a good job tap dancing her way through a landmine of insecurity. It's not her fault she was born to wealth. Mariah is a two-faced 'friend' to Kari. She is the Queen B. B for BULL.

Shirley-TN
Shirley-TN

 @2wisehands

 I know my worth and I was offended by Toya and Kari attacking Quad before she got in the door.  It's okay to let some stuff go...don't say anything, but Toya and Kari apparently thought Quad owed them some type of explanation about her life!  Quad's response was appropriate!  It's sad that she (Quad) HAD to present herself in that light to straighten out that type of ignorance (Toya and Kari). 

judy@london
judy@london

 @2wisehands

 Mariah may be a lot of things but I don't think 'insecure' is one of them.I like her.Period.

LAMOH26
LAMOH26

 @jh102289

 I think she is showing the real her all the way around(personal & professional). Everyone probably including yourself act differently outside of work. Granted she needs to learn that revenge isn't always the best way to go but at the same time letting people run over you isn't going to get you any where either. And once she find's a balance she'll be fine. I think you need to have several seats especially addressing the situation that took place between her and her husband. He acted out of impulse and emotion, clearly, seeing that they still got married. #catchthatdirt

Treca
Treca

 @AtticusFinch

 I'm certain your declaration has truly left her heartbroken. Lol

Negrita24
Negrita24

 @sha_1  @RIC2HOU-

 I hear your point. I used to dislike Tamar heavily. But I truly think that she is extra due to the camera. I see another side of her when she was promoting her single. I love Tamar and I love Quad. They definitely have some room to grow but truly what woman doesn't. We all wear many hats and sometimes the hat we put on is just not suited for the people and place we are around. Hopefully after this season they will reflect an say mmh...there are some things I need to change not because someone told me to but because I disapprove of this behavior and need to make some moves. Wishing you blessings.

Co-hen-n-nc
Co-hen-n-nc

@2wisehands @sha_1 were you watching the same show as me? Are you a personal friend of Kari's? Maybe you have the names of the girls wrong. You can say this was what went on or so & so said this or that but what happened is very clear. Kari was trying to make Quad feel like she is better than her. She was trying to make her feel less than some of the other women. It is really that simple from what I saw. I can't bare to even watch the scenes with Kari in them. I hope she leaves because this could be a really good show.

sha_1
sha_1

 @2wisehands  @sha_1  LOL! I will admit... you are right. Sometimes the new kid should talk less & listen more. But when the conversation is about you & your man/husband...who's gonna stand for that.. NOT ME. I think that Toya came for Quad.. I believe Toya set out to expose Quad's situation with her husband off top...on camera. The only thing that Kari is really guilty of is co-signing, & pre-judging. She is Toya's friend...her loyalty lies with Toya...and Toya already poisoned Kari's mind where Quad is concerned. I think Quad wanted to let her know that if she wants to roll with her, & have her back...this is what comes with that.  I feel that they judged her & her situation without giving her a chance... and then her being from the "hood" didn't score her any points...especially with Kari. She even said about Toya, " She may be from Detroit...and a lil rough around the edges but..."  So that let me know... at least she gave Toya a chance...she already has her mind made up about Quad... Quad can see that & it makes her defensive. As far as Mariah.. I don't see her as 2-faced. I think she is very candid with all parties involved. I think she tells Quad when she is wrong...and she tells Kari when she is wrong. Mariah's loyalty clearly lies with Quad... as it should...because she brought her into the circle.  

Sinciar
Sinciar

I feel the exact same way. @2wisehands you should rewatch ep. 01 Kari made several comments before Quad said anything back she was being “humerous” in her own way, as shes says, but she was definitely judging Quad and throwing a lil shade at the same time. Nothing I cant stand more than for someone to be messy and not OWN IT. If that’s you then that’s you but don’t try and play victim when someone attacks you BACK. …”You’ve got worse, I’ve seen scary movies that was less scarier than that” , “We’re gonna have to take her under our wing in a stray jacket” , “There’s a REASON she married a Psychiatrist” and those are just a few that I caught before Quad defended herself. And might I add if you pay attention Kari kept getting her husbands job title wrong “by mistake” and so I thought the same –but when I watched it again I noticed she sure did get it right when she said that last quote I just listed for you. I reads honey, I know snakes when I see’em slither.

 

Sinciar
Sinciar

I feel the exact same way. @2wisehands you should rewatch ep. 01 Kari made several comments before Quad said anything back she was being “humerous” in her own way, as shes says, but she was definitely judging Quad and throwing a lil shade at the same time. Nothing I cant stand more than for someone to be messy and not OWN IT. If that’s you then that’s you but don’t try and play victim when someone attacks you BACK. …”You’ve got worse, I’ve seen scary movies that was less scarier than that” , “We’re gonna have to take her under our wing in a stray jacket” , “There’s a REASON she married a Psychiatrist” and those are just a few that I caught before Quad defended herself. And might I add if you pay attention Kari kept getting her husbands job title wrong “by mistake” and so I thought the same –but when I watched it again I noticed she sure did get it right when she said that last quote I just listed for you. I reads honey, I know snakes when I see’em slither.

2wisehands
2wisehands

 @Shirley-TN I only agree that Toya was ridiculous to Quad. Kari probably should have kept quiet. I did not, however, see Kari jumping all over Quad without being provoked by Quad's ignorant comments about her! Toya was the one gunning for Quad. If Quad is as smart as I think she is she'll learn to watch, listen and talk to her husband about her issues with these woman before running off at the mouth and making herself look WRONG.

Co-hen-n-nc
Co-hen-n-nc

@sha_1 @2wisehands Ohhh girl yes!! I agree she was behind it!! Kari makes my skin crawl trying to make people feel like she is better. But I do think she was following T. 's lead doing that to Quad.

sha_1
sha_1

@Co-hen-n-nc@2wisehands@sha_1  Yes... we were watching the same show. I don't disagree with you at all. I believe Kari deserved every bit of what Quad gave her, for the way she treated her. BUT, I also agree that Kari is not the REAL culprit... it's definitely  "Treacherous T"! 

 

 

sha_1
sha_1

 @2wisehands  HA! So true... based on what you said.. Imma keep an eye on Ms. Mariah...LOL!   

2wisehands
2wisehands

 @sha_1 Well said! I just can't agree. It is obvious to me that Mariah gets Quad riled up. It's also obvious that they are both feeling 'less than' citing the remark made about how Dr Jackie and Dr Simone think they're better than everyone else. Mariah means well but is a house divided. She doesn't really like Kari but she needs Kari or her husband will be pissed off. LOL. I like these women! I just wish they would do something other than take offense at imagined insults! Imagine what they could do with all that money if they could put aside their  petty differences! But I guess that would be a different franchise lol.

sha_1
sha_1

 @2wisehands  @Shirley-TN  You are right about that. Toya was the culprit of it all. I think Quad felt ganged up on by that point though. Even though Kari didn't say to much...by the time she started talking & trying to give her 2 cents Quad was TURNED UP!  She felt like it was ON... & Kari was team Toya...so let's go!  Again.. not saying there was nothing at all wrong with her behavior...but I honestly feel she was provoked. I honestly feel like they do things to get her riled up...then they like to sit back & talk about what an animal she is...how unlady like she behaves... how she is making her husband look bad. I don't see any difference in their behavior... it is just as embarrassing as a woman. They just hide behind fake smiles and "darlings" , & "sweethearts", & "honeys". But their actions are just as hateful, and troubling to watch.