Tamra Barney

Tamra shares why Eddie feels the way he does about Vicki and commends Heather on a great party.

on Apr 10, 20130

I have only seen part of this episode so my blog will be sort and to the point.

Heather sure knows how to throw a great party. She knew exactly what she was doing sitting Vicki across the table from me. Thank You Heather.

My friendship with Vicki was in a bad place for many months. I really did miss her but I needed time to get over everything that had happened. A lot of things happened after the party at Heather's house last year that the viewers did not see. I received a very nasty email from Vicki that was very hurtful. She also was tweeting horrible rumors about Eddie and his career, that were complete lies. Eddie is not use to all this drama between friends and has a hard time understanding this show. Eddie is basing his opinion off his own experience with Vicki and not what happened at Heather's party. Eddie has NEVER done a thing to Vicki and he did not understand why she would spread such vicious rumors about him? Now you know why he was so opinionated when he was talking to me in the kitchen.

245 comments
lovehousewives1
lovehousewives1

You need to dump the ugly boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

methinks
methinks

Tamra,  I like you.  I really do.  The fact that you couldn't remember swearing at Vicki at your gym dinner, tells me you lost control of yourself.  You shouldn't have agreed to have Alexis come, if you weren't going to be able to control yourself regardless.  It makes you look bad.  You need to steer clear of people who push your buttons, for your own protection.

bunnymunro
bunnymunro

Aw, aren't you so wonderful if you don't say so yourself?

Bullshit, you would have the kids on there AGAIN in a heartbeat if the ex would let you.

May as well conveniently grab some credit though while your'e are at it.

Lmkschultz
Lmkschultz

It blows my mind how ppl that have money and few worries are so petty. It's almost as if having money is boring so you all search for drama to give yourselves some sense of 'living' and a 'rush'. It's absolutely disgusting! I am a military wife, I work full time and go to school, and we are far from rich and probably will never see a day of being anywhere near rich, and although worrying about wether or not the bills will be paid next month and not knowing if my husband will have a job due to military cuts is stressful as hell, I wouldn't trade my life for yours EVER! You have so much to be grateful for, ALL of you do, and instead of focusing on the positive you're negative and ugly! If you don't like someone or agree with them, then stay away from and leave them alone. Put your time and energy toward something positive. The real kicker is, you're hideous actions are taped and you can look at them and see first hand how obscene and ridiculous you are and you have not learned from any of your actions at all. Instead, as the seasons go on you progressively get worse! You ought to be ashamed of yourself.... I wonder what your children will say when they are older and see this. How does it affect them now?? Do you stop to think about anyone other than yourself??? GROSS....JUST GROSS!

cds
cds

the way you treated the ladies at your dinner party was so low class...just completely unnecessary...

Trixiebelle
Trixiebelle

Girl, you are so white trash.  You have a filthy mouth and no class whatsoever.  What you did to Alexis was really mean.  If you didn't want her there you should have told Vicki that.  But since you didn't have the nerve to confront Vicki and "uninvite" Alexis, you instead went after her when she showed up only because Vicki pushed her to.  She did not deserve the way you treated her and YOU owe HER an apology.  Again, I have no idea why Eddie would want to marry a two time loser like you.  Your track record is lousy and if I were Eddie I'd find someone sweeter and younger with no kids. 

MizzouTraveler
MizzouTraveler

Instead of playing the 'wounded' about Eddie proposing you planning the wedding during a less stressful time is incredibly immature.  Let me clue you in, most men aren't into planning weddings.  And for the sake of your relationship, start acting like a lady and stop cussing so much and gossiping about every incident of the show.  Men can only tolerate so much

PGurl
PGurl

Tamra where is your blog for the dinner episode????? One word. Coward.

arisner399@gmail.om
arisner399@gmail.om

Bullying is intentional aggressive behavior. It can take the form of physical or verbal harassment and involves an imbalance of power (a group of children can gang up on a victim or someone who is physically bigger or more aggressive can intimidate someone else, for instance).

Bullying behavior can include teasing, insulting someone (particularly about their weight or height, race, sexuality, religion or other personal traits), shoving, hitting, excluding someone, or gossiping about someone    in your words when everyone is telling you something about you that isn't nice  that what you said about alexis  to make such a comment and then say that its not bulling is just stupid you are a bulling and you have help with heather

Iamblessed2
Iamblessed2

After tonight's show I won't be watching anymore! You are one wicked witch and so are Gretchen and Heather! It's true what the say money does not buy class! Run Eddie run!!!!

mrswatson20123022
mrswatson20123022

your voice is sooooo annoying your the only who needs meds................

rmohlerr
rmohlerr

Tamra,

I just watched the previews of your party, you are "White Trash"! You must be very unhappy with who you are and your life to treat another person like you did Alexis. Have some dignity women. You should be embarrassed and ashamed!!  Bravo needs to get rid of you and have someone with class on the show.

martini777
martini777

Tamara, You use to be my favorite on the show BUT you've turned into a mean girl. You also look like you want to become Gretchen's clone, the hair, the getting boobs out, dressing like her, etc. Stop it, you're embarrassing yourself. And you're with this young guy, ain't going to work so you need to shut your mouth about Vickie's dates ( not that I like Brooks either) but women have to go through crap and live and learn. Quit being the little Nepoleon that you are telling everyone what they need to be doing, check YOURSELF.

Realfanhouse
Realfanhouse

Tamra, you are rude, crude and completely hilarious. Never change. As far as trash talking, everyone on the show trash talks at one time or another. I'll take your trashy talk over anyone else's trash talk.

Jpicol
Jpicol

Eddie. Is he a housewife? I have never told my husband who to be friends and he has never interfered in mine. Woman up already.

kerrylil1
kerrylil1

Tamra - I respect your honesty and staying true to yourself. Mean or not mean, you are who you are and i have never once heard you try to convince people otherwise.  Unlike Vicki, who is clearly a liar and delusional about the person she is

shopper
shopper

Then that being said if its true then that she spread rumors you really should not pursue this friendship out of simple respect for Eddie PERIOD. Something like that simply shouldn't have happened on Vicki's part at her age. So you should make a clean brake. There is no excuse

jenniz1989
jenniz1989

Tamra, there's so many people who love you (including me) but just don't go on bravo and comment. I know for a fact the younger generation lalalLOVEs you!!!! xoxo

jlhicks69
jlhicks69

Wow, amazing how so many people watch the same show and have such different opinions. I guess it shows your own character based on how you respond to this. In saying this, GET REAL louise123... painting Vicki as a victim & Tamara as the "mean girl", really?  Vicki has been a bully from the beginning and not at all who I would call a 'real friend'.

Maur
Maur

Tamra you are not a nice person ! Think about it and maybe you can become a better person that would be nice.

saoirse.churchwood
saoirse.churchwood

Tamra, Watching you, Eddie and Gretchen trashtalk  Vicki in the limo en route to Heather's was like being in the girls room in junior high.

Ellen01
Ellen01

I hate reading these comments! Everybody has their own options but some people must not watch the same Show that I'm watching!! Tamra is probably the most REAL PERSON that's on that show ! But oh well it's a Reality Show so if people doesn't like the show they can always turn it off ! As well as I can !!

csdaprile
csdaprile

You are a hypocrite. You care nothing about Vicki. You are a hate filled person. Vicki was your friend and you turned on her. If I were her, I would never let you back into my life. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.  Then you go to Eddie.  What does he know about female relationships?  You love to stir the pot.  Your friendship with Gretchen is a farce.  She is disgusting and phony.  Her ego is bigger than yours, and that's pretty big. Vicki kept you grounded and was good for you.  You blew it.

mimilandia
mimilandia

Tamra, everything about you so fake and insincere.  Even when you attempt to cry or even manage to let a few lose tears, you seem so hypocritical. When you apologize to others, like Vicki, it all seems so fake.  You try to say that Alexis is always trying to be someone she is not.  I think Alexis, whether one likes her or not, is being herself.  You keep reminding everyone you own 51 percent but 49 percent is also a nice big chunk so you did need the help of man to help you because you couldn't do it on your own.    You on the other hand are so full or spite and hate and even when you attempt to pretend you are happy and laugh, it is so annoyingly fake.  I loved it last season when your own son, Ryan, told you he didn't get involve and didn't want to hear it when you tried to bring gossip to him about Brianna and Vicki.  At least you son has more sense and judgment, and I am sure a bigger heart that you seem to ever have.  I truly don't know how those around you don't see the mean and hateful person you really are.   You are a bully, and you love to stir the pot and talk about others, but when others do it to you, you seem to have a double standard.  

southernbeauty1
southernbeauty1

You are wrong when you stated that's why the viewers watch the show; to see you all cut each other down. Perhaps that's your objective on the show however you should think more of the viewers especially since we are the reason you collect a paycheck from the show. You never were my favorite & certainly this season is no exception. You don't have much of a personality & continue season after season to pick on someone in the group to assure yourself a decent amount of airtime. You're nothing more than a middle aged woman trying to hold onto her youth by whatever means necessary. You lied on the reunion show by saying that Vicki met Brooks through Eddie. You stated he & Eddie were "good friends". This is before Brooks appeared on the show. Am I the only one who remembers this??? Why can't you make an honest, positive attempt to be a good hearted person to the other ladies in the group? Not because you have no other friends in the group or because they're wealthy but because its the right thing to do. Contrary to your way of thinking, we prefer when you all get along & accept each other flaws & all. Stop tearing other people down! Your boy toy will tire of it sooner than you think. As well as everyone else.

Tlr
Tlr

Be careful, if you keep telling Vikki you don't want to end the friendship, and you intimate to Eddie that you do, it is going to seem that you are not authentic. By the way, you should thank your lucky stars Gretchen is so forgiving. You were horrible to her over the years. I am team Tamera-now. You have redeemed yourself. Watch out for Vikki. She is bad news.

pink29
pink29

Sorry Tamra but i think you are a white trash that has not class at all. You are so judgmental of everyone. Take a look at yourself !!!

Anna2013one
Anna2013one

Tamra, You're my favorite housewife of all the housewife shows on TV. There's just something about you that despite you being super gorgeous and well-rounded, people can relate to you. You are so real. So cool. But I do agree with some viewers that you seemed to not want to be Vicki's friend while she was dating Brooks because of him. That was disappointing because friends should still be there for each other even if one is or did date a loser like Brooks. Why did you feel that you had to use Brooks as an excuse to distance yourself from Brooks? Hope you don't see this as any negativity toward you because you are really awesome. Nobody is perfect.

aleslie63
aleslie63

Tamra left the lobster dinner crying cause she feels bad about what she did to Vicki. But heaven forbid that she knows how to admit she is wrong and say I am sorry. She can dish it out but she can't take it. She needs to really work on her inner being.

Fancigrl4u
Fancigrl4u

I would like to know what the name or website of the clothing show she had with the Evil Eye hat.  Does anyone know?  Thanks peeps

momincolo
momincolo

You should color your hair brunette and get rid of the extensions. You're pretty now but stuck in the old extensions thing...change it up a little!  I think you'd make a great brunette!  :)

Love watching you and Eddie..you're so cute together.

louise123
louise123

The point isn't whether you were right about Brooks or not--how ridiculous! The point is how you spoke "about" and "to"  Brooks and Vickki. You were nasty and vile at the reunion (again) and the at the season's end. You holdpeople trapped in your mean "rants" and you're scary. Friends don't do that--- no matter how many blinders you think they are wearing. I would never do to a friend what you did on national TVto Vikki.  I'm so sick of seeing you behave so vile, and then apologize and play it down (Jena,Grethchen,Slade,Brooks) and add tears to apologize. You just keep doing it- it's WHO YOU ARE. You had back-up against Vikki this time (Gretchen) and that's all you needed. When you have back-up, your mean girl antics are unsettling and ruthless- just plain ugly and mean spirited. And you don't "hate Brooks"? lol, ARE YOU KIDDING ME? After the reunion, if you don't "hate" Brooks, I'd hate to see how you talk about and treat people you really DO hate. You're a mean girl and use women who are scared of you to help you--I used to like Grethen--but not any more---thanks to you.

bizygirl
bizygirl

Get rid of Tamra she really is someone who fake and as soon as someone with money appears then she tries and she is really trying to become their new BFF!!!

sigristmary
sigristmary

I was taken back when listening to Eddie talk about how your friendship with Vickie should be.  I thought Eddie was channeling your ex-husband.  Be your own person, don't go backwards.

viewer5634
viewer5634

You and Gretchen are the worst kind of people...EVER!

 

roysgirl78
roysgirl78

 @Lmkschultz

 THANKS for taking the time to say all that! you hit the nail on the head!

dobnerk
dobnerk

 @Realfanhouse OK, now you have proven yourself to be a very troubled person just by admitting that you like Tamra.  Are you kidding????!!!  She's the worst of the worst of the worst.  I've never seen a grown woman behave so badly.  I've never even seen middle school mean girls behave to badly and I worked with them.  You need to check yourself just for liking Tamra!

 

Jodibelle
Jodibelle

 @shopper sometimes you have to learn for yourself.  I think Tamra will (or did, since this was taped).  Vicki is already making waves by inviting Alexis to Tamra's party.  The control has started right where it left off.   The only way this friendship will work is if Tamra lets Vicki control her.  It's not going to work. 

Karianne
Karianne

 @jlhicks69 But Tamra sure called Vicki a friend until their falling out when she tried to interject herself, uninvited, into Vicki's relationship with Brookes. No fan of Vicki or Brookes here, but Tamra calls out Vicki for hypocrisy while being a hypocrite herself. According to recent press, Tamra is already calling Vicki her friend again and has apparently been badmouthing Lauri.

amandamommycat
amandamommycat

 @jlhicks69 I couldn't agree more. Vicki knew what she was doing when she asked if Alexis could go to that dinner party. When Tamera and Alexis was screaming at each other Vicki was in the background just taking it all in. When has she ever been quiet? Only when she causes drama.  She just loves to stir that pot! Then plays innocent. 

sandee.chavez
sandee.chavez

 @mimilandia

 I love it when she tries to cry because its so phony but what gets me is she wants compassion when she has none to give,

Anna2013one
Anna2013one

@momincolo. I disagree. Maybe change her hairstyle when she feels like it, but I think that Tamra probably looks the most awesome as a blonde!

Ellen01
Ellen01

@louise123 brooks is a sleaze !! Anyone with eyes can see that !!

Ellen01
Ellen01

@bizygirl Tamra is probably the MOST REAL PERSON ON THAT SHOW !!